Today my emotional is like stock market - unpredictable, ups & downs, certain stocks is in high stakes, some is such a drag....
Certain distraction, certain misunderstanding, certain care - mostly brought a smile or a laugh, some cause serious thinking....
Is it due to cumulative stress or thoughts? Is it due to acute accusation?
In the end, is up to oneself....
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Tuesday, March 03, 2009
Why they (guy & gal) opt for richer, prettier, stupier or etc?
Have you ever wonder why women choose men who are richer? Why men opt for women who are prettier or stupier?
As I see it, generally most relationship fail coz men cheat or career & money instability, whereas women compare, gossip, backstab or cheat.
Imagine this, if you are dating an ugly (or/and) fat (or/and) poor woman, but she end up cheating on you or she likes to make a hell out of your life, wouldn't a guy be happier that he is at least with a gal with the body (or/and) the looks?
For the ladies, if you are dating a poor (or/and) ugly (or/and) fat man, but he end up cheating on you, AND he also uses your hard earn money or physcially (or/and) mentally abuse you, wouldn't a gal be happier that she at least is with a guy that has the money (or/and) looks?
Maybe I am being cynical towards relationship, but trust me as one grow older, these scenarios become a norm. Those who potrays to be in a good relationship or keep talking about how wonderful their relationship/marriage are, they are in fact normally those who have to come out with stories to cover up.
How many attached or married guys or gals of yours came to you and told you how awful is their partner and how they regret getting married (of coz behind their partner's back)? How many told you the truth(s) on what they talk (or/and) do behind their partners? The simpliest and the most innocent people you THOUGHT you know can turn out to be the most manipulate and cunning people you know.
Why are modern women now more prone to be single or married late compared to the previous generation? Since modern women are so independent with financial, career and decisions making, somehow their needs toward men has changed.
Gone were the days where women married to "better their life" whereas men married to "have a family to be responsible & mature".
Generally, women tend to mature faster than men of the same age. Therefore, women prefer to date men who are older. Through experiences and time, a guy is more mature in handling his IQ and EQ and most importantly his partner.
Imagine the girl have to guide the guy in big matters or a guy who is still clueless about his or their future undertakings, whereas the girl have it all planned out with her career, financial and assets. This is where the "not in par" will be a big problem. Men who do not foresee that career stability or financial sound is important for a future to build a family is rather still a dreamer. Sad to say, the truth is - money plays a very important role in a sustainable relationship.
Gone were the days when we are young where we love for the sake of love. When you grow up, you will also know love is not just the matter of "me & you", but it is a union of two families, it comes with lots of huge responsibilities, kids come into the picture and etc. Yeah, tell me about it, it is scary, yet so full of challenges!
Question to ponder: What do you NEED your partner for?
As I see it, generally most relationship fail coz men cheat or career & money instability, whereas women compare, gossip, backstab or cheat.
Imagine this, if you are dating an ugly (or/and) fat (or/and) poor woman, but she end up cheating on you or she likes to make a hell out of your life, wouldn't a guy be happier that he is at least with a gal with the body (or/and) the looks?
For the ladies, if you are dating a poor (or/and) ugly (or/and) fat man, but he end up cheating on you, AND he also uses your hard earn money or physcially (or/and) mentally abuse you, wouldn't a gal be happier that she at least is with a guy that has the money (or/and) looks?
Maybe I am being cynical towards relationship, but trust me as one grow older, these scenarios become a norm. Those who potrays to be in a good relationship or keep talking about how wonderful their relationship/marriage are, they are in fact normally those who have to come out with stories to cover up.
How many attached or married guys or gals of yours came to you and told you how awful is their partner and how they regret getting married (of coz behind their partner's back)? How many told you the truth(s) on what they talk (or/and) do behind their partners? The simpliest and the most innocent people you THOUGHT you know can turn out to be the most manipulate and cunning people you know.
Why are modern women now more prone to be single or married late compared to the previous generation? Since modern women are so independent with financial, career and decisions making, somehow their needs toward men has changed.
Gone were the days where women married to "better their life" whereas men married to "have a family to be responsible & mature".
Generally, women tend to mature faster than men of the same age. Therefore, women prefer to date men who are older. Through experiences and time, a guy is more mature in handling his IQ and EQ and most importantly his partner.
Imagine the girl have to guide the guy in big matters or a guy who is still clueless about his or their future undertakings, whereas the girl have it all planned out with her career, financial and assets. This is where the "not in par" will be a big problem. Men who do not foresee that career stability or financial sound is important for a future to build a family is rather still a dreamer. Sad to say, the truth is - money plays a very important role in a sustainable relationship.
Gone were the days when we are young where we love for the sake of love. When you grow up, you will also know love is not just the matter of "me & you", but it is a union of two families, it comes with lots of huge responsibilities, kids come into the picture and etc. Yeah, tell me about it, it is scary, yet so full of challenges!
Question to ponder: What do you NEED your partner for?
Monday, March 02, 2009
Karaoke & yamcha session @ Gardens Red Box & Ochacha
It's been a while the 4 of us get together. And it is the 1st time the 4 of us went for Karaoke together. (After 13 years of friendship, kinda sad huh). We sing K from 1pm to 6pm.... geng or not? Oh, and we eat the hi-tea buffet from 3pm to 6pm. Trust me, for 4 gals, we really eat a lot, a lot!!!
After karaoke, we went up to California fitness where Meor went to enquire about membership as Mei Li was already a member there. It always give me a creepy feeling to see the guys coming out from fitness centre, somehow I already deem them as 90% gay. Only those guys who come out with specs, tummy and lousy wears, I will deem them as 90% real man. I am sorry for being stereotype here, but how many good looking guys with good body in Malaysia are errr.... available (to girls)?
Whereas I am a member at the club house near my house which is filled with uncles and aunties who are mostly very friendly to me.
Speaking of which, let me divert my story a bit now. Last night when I was in gym, this one old Indian uncle was on the the threadmill beside me, he dunno how to operate the threadmill so I jumped down from mine and taught him how to use it. Once he was done, he asked me, "Hey gal, how old are you?". So, I answered him and he said, "Very good (refering to my threadmill effort). Then he said, "I am 58 years." I was like "............" The 58 years old uncle is running on the threadmill, for goodness sake. Amen to you, uncle. ***Makes me more motivated***
Let me come back to the gfs outings. We camwhore like nobody in Ochacha after the California fitness and Isetan walk walk. Let the pictures do the talking....
Major headache... Our so-called professional photographer for events who works for a BIG MNC company. Can't handle a point-and-shoot.
Photographer Mei Li says she can make me look thinner from this angle.
Fuyoh~~~ Pretty gal out for grabs. If you want her number, please leave me a msg. Wukakaka.
One of those CLEAR pic of us that the professional photographer took...
Smile gals smile~
Ain't my gfs cute or what?!?!?!
Hehe... guess whose shoes and feet is for who... please ignore the auntie stocking.... disgrace!!! Wukakaka...
The one and only group picture by the forever four~
Hamsaping my gf... hehehe
I have a very happy day out with my gfs~ Love you gals~
After karaoke, we went up to California fitness where Meor went to enquire about membership as Mei Li was already a member there. It always give me a creepy feeling to see the guys coming out from fitness centre, somehow I already deem them as 90% gay. Only those guys who come out with specs, tummy and lousy wears, I will deem them as 90% real man. I am sorry for being stereotype here, but how many good looking guys with good body in Malaysia are errr.... available (to girls)?
Whereas I am a member at the club house near my house which is filled with uncles and aunties who are mostly very friendly to me.
Speaking of which, let me divert my story a bit now. Last night when I was in gym, this one old Indian uncle was on the the threadmill beside me, he dunno how to operate the threadmill so I jumped down from mine and taught him how to use it. Once he was done, he asked me, "Hey gal, how old are you?". So, I answered him and he said, "Very good (refering to my threadmill effort). Then he said, "I am 58 years." I was like "............" The 58 years old uncle is running on the threadmill, for goodness sake. Amen to you, uncle. ***Makes me more motivated***
Let me come back to the gfs outings. We camwhore like nobody in Ochacha after the California fitness and Isetan walk walk. Let the pictures do the talking....
Major headache... Our so-called professional photographer for events who works for a BIG MNC company. Can't handle a point-and-shoot.
Photographer Mei Li says she can make me look thinner from this angle.
Fuyoh~~~ Pretty gal out for grabs. If you want her number, please leave me a msg. Wukakaka.
One of those CLEAR pic of us that the professional photographer took...
Smile gals smile~
Ain't my gfs cute or what?!?!?!
Hehe... guess whose shoes and feet is for who... please ignore the auntie stocking.... disgrace!!! Wukakaka...
The one and only group picture by the forever four~
Hamsaping my gf... hehehe
I have a very happy day out with my gfs~ Love you gals~
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