Mensus story

My good friend diagnosed me for being stressed out. My monthly auntie refused to come last month and this month she kindly visited me twice. Wukakakaka....

Talking about mensus, my bro shared an interesting article he read. He says some expert says when a few girls stayed in a house long enough, their hormones will synchronized and resulting them to have period around the same time each month.

Okay, I hope this is a de-stressing post for me. Last but not least,

TGIF!!!!

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When only can I get away from this!?!?!??!?!?!!?!?!

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I wonder if this de-stress therapy is working or not......

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NOOOOOOOOOO.... arrgggghhhhhh

He said, She said, They said

One comes damaging and one comes for the rescue.

THE female is poisonous and THE male is gentle.

The same one brings frustration and then brings you enjoyment. And another day it comes again.

They have a lot to say, but they all are just talks and no action (a.k.a. NATO).

They may act if things happen, but then consequences and conditions will come with their actions.

They are those who have no clue, they are those who need help and they are those who unintentionally brings you a smile.

He, She and They - people you can't live without or people who can't live without you; people you can't avoid or people you wanna connect.

When it comes, it hits you with a big bang, but when it does not come, you wonder why it never happens to you; when it happens, will you be able to handle it?

WORK IS SOMETIMES SO FRUSTRATING... but can't complain about it MUCH. For apparent reason for different people around me. Sigh.... I wish that my dream would come true someday to be siu nai nai. Wukakaka.... and then another day, I would like to have my career coz of some apparent reasons for different people around me.

Life is a box of chocolates, you never know what you are getting next....

Maybe that's why so unpredictable, too much chocolates in my life. Wukakakaka.

Verdict: Working late is not a good thing for me. It makes me go cockoo~

HAPPPPPPPY from last night till today!!!

Last night I went home eating alone AGAIN coz the rest of the family had dinner earlier as I am always the last one to reach home. Mum came down to accompany me and in the midst of having my dinner, she came from behind and whisper something in my ear.

IT IS VERY CREEPY MUM!!!

Speaking of which, my parents will be here for the month of October before they fly off for my pa's next overseas assignment. Therefore, I am rushing home everyday after work to accompany them as much as I can and reserved my weekends for them. Thank God I got an understanding bee :)

Anyways, my mum told me a good news which makes me happy the whole night through and even when I was in gym I was very happy. Haha, I admit sometimes I get overjoyed for little things. I was surprised of the overjoy overwhelming me as it not that related to me, but also will affect me. I am just crossing my fingers tightly to wish it is true. This secret will remain now within the family and only one more important person knows (keep it to yourself till the time is right).

***** Back from heavy lunch*****

Last night I experience a heart-warming performance before sleeping. Even though a few keys off and some interruptions in between, my heart melts with the gesture. Hehe, I love pleasant surprises, given it big or small. I am a girl mar. Anyway, I am looking forward for the full throttle and perfect performance!

Just came back from lunch, happy and bloated (sob). Calv drops by as he is attending an interview at 2:30pm nearby. I invited him to the Ozeki restaurant. The soft shell crab is nicely done and the rest of the meal are okay. It's been my 7th month working here and it is the first time he drop by for lunch, so is my honour to see & treat him. Well, it is understandable as he and I work and stay at far ends of earth KL & Selangor.

Now I feel so sleepy, I dislike having heavy lunch. Gonna enter for my 3pm brainstorming meeting with an Ang Moh and a Singh. Wuuuuuuuuuu..... *please do not bully me.* I should prepare my innocent face for later. Hahaha... okay, I will sign off now, can't really think well...... *blurp*

Misunderstanding towards me

I guess most of the time people would take me as a friendly and nice person. That explains why I am sometimes taken advantage of =_=". Wukakaka.... stop showing that disbelief face.

I am a person who is lazy to explains herself when it comes to chaos. Normally I will just take it as it is and let people say what they want to say. Unless that person matters a lot to me. But still, I normally speak up once or twice and that's it. I believe that time will proves itself.

However, I learn that this style maybe "cool", but is not advisable. This is where misunderstandings and assumptions will occur. With my limited knowledge of boombastic or colourful words to use, sometimes things turned up worse when I tried to explain or clarify. Maybe that's another reason I choose to remain silent or be a person of few words when arguement, accusations or negativity occurs. Sometimes I think that just by keeping quiet, and let your opponent(s) cool down or after a period of time, the problem(s) will just disappear or forgotten.

I think this serves both as a strength and weakness. It is how and when to use it at the right time(s) and to the right person(s) that matters the most.

But really I am mostly just LAZY to explain myself, unless it really goes up my nerves and cross my line.

I am the everything-yes-and-very-capable employee in work, a filial daughter at home, an excellent partner in relationship, a great friend in friendship.... WUKAKAKAKAKA.... okay-lar, just kidding, but let me just syiok sendiri okay?

I just want to tell people who I cared for and I will care for in the future (errr... people who will be entering in my life), that my style maybe incorrect or inappropriate, but mostly my intentions are good. I ask for forgiveness if I offended anyone along the way. I will improve myself as a person who will be more spoken out (I guess), providing more assurance (hopefully) and stay as sweet or sweeter in the future (feel like slapping myself, wukakaka).

Last but not least, I want to tell my family, my bee and my friends - I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!! Except my company and boss. Wukakakakaka....

Perhaps today once again my workload is getting into my head, and it makes me think of life itself... so I am writing this post of random thinking :)

Sekian, terima kasih.

The things man should understand – Security

I was reading this Chinese article from a magazine which I think is very interesting. Therefore, I decided to translate it.

According to the article, security is the standard of measurement of love. Apparently, the view of security differs between man and woman. A woman’s definition of security does not arise from a man’s well-built body, solid wealth or etc, but the confidence a guy provided for a woman to make them rely the rest of their life towards this man.

A woman’s security derives from a man’s love, and a woman’s love provides security to a man. Therefore, in related to the topic of security, the main source is from man, but woman holds the power to control it.

If you want to build a solid foundation in her heart, whether you can provide security to her is the winning point.

1. RESPECT HER DECISION

Do not interfere with her decision all the time, instead encourage her to develop her strengths, because everyone is the same, if you are doing something you dislike, you will lack motivation and passion. What you believe is good, doesn’t mean she will think is suitable for her. An ideal new century guy should respect all women, even if it is a person you just met.

2. USE BODY TO PROVIDE HER WARMTH

Why does a woman like their hand to be hold by a man? This is because the warmth from the palm of a man, makes a woman feels real. The desire for a person to be touched is the same for both man and woman. The palm, the warmth of a hug, normally provides the deepest impression which can be remembered for a lifetime, far compared to a diamond. Normally when she thinks of you, she will remembers your hug, not the materials you provided for her, therefore, man please do not be stingy in providing your hugs and holding her hand tightly.

3. PROVIDE CARE AT SUITABLE TIMES

When a man shows care and his gentleness, I believe every woman will be very happy, but over-excessive care will make her feel repulse. When she is frustrated, just act as a role of rubbish bin that would do great. Sometimes what a woman needs, is just a person to talk to, not a final result. Also, try to remember the names of her friends she mentioned to you, when she face difficulties, you can provide the best suggestions.

4. MAKE HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS ADMIRE YOU

Elder people eyesight normally are very good, they can analyze a person’s good and bad. If you can win over her family and friends admiration, you have achieve success halfway. You must understand that woman are normally very easily influence by people around her, if there are people around her who admire you, in many ways you will gain a lot of help.

5. DO NOT BE STUBBORN IN WINNING

Even though most men want everything to be equal, but, woman needs to be “tam”, therefore please do not be so emotional, if it does not involve your principles; let the girls win first, when both of you calm down, only resolve to find a solution.

6. ATHELETIC GUYS ARE NORMALLY MORE WELCOME

For guys who have a hobby in sports, are easier to release stress, you also make a woman feel you are with a man who is passionate, makes her feel confidence towards life. I believe, there’s not a woman who likes to live with a man who drinks alcohol and smoking everyday to distress.

7. MAKE HER FEELS TALKING HER HEART CONTENTS TO YOU IS SAFE

If a woman is willing to honestly and sincerely to communicate with you, that indicates you have a very special and solid position in her heart. But it is best if you know when to talk, and when to keep your mouth shut. Do not be afraid to express, you can share your feelings and thinking appropriately, this will makes her feel that you are at her side, in her heart she will feels more reliable towards you. You must ensure her that you will not be laughing at her because she is willing to express her inner thoughts to you.

8. BE CLEAR WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR GIRL-FRIENDS

Both man and woman, should have their own circles of friends, but guys who likes to play flirting games is definitely the pain in the axx for woman. If you are the type of guy who do not feel good in saying no or refuse other women, as an end result, you will expect sooner or later she will definitely reject you without mercy. You may regard it as insecurity or no trust, all in all, woman just wish their man can appear within their visible zone and listening zone. You can let her know the friends you are mixing with, but both of you can communicate beforehand, both of you can give each other space in the foundation of trust. At appropriate times, work on sweet talking, most of the time, woman falls for this.

Suddenly, I feel my translation skills have improved drastically and my Chinese is still going strong. However, forgive me if there are parts that sound weird. Sometimes it is hard to put Chinese words into English. I certainly believe that Mandarin is very powerful and more expressive.

Okay, I hope this post is EASIER TO DIGEST. I know my previous post is very “special”. Hehehe…..

The ultimate story combo = Almond + Pistachio + Namd + + Everybody loves Raymond + The osbournes + ???

Pistachio and Almond are nuts = related.

Pistachio like Namd due to the same same habits and talking styles (pig fren dog fren). Namd is jealous when Pistachio and Almond being nuts together. Namd create different stories between Pistachio and Almond. Pistachio choose to believe in Namd as they know each other longer. Almond was hurt and felt like being crack into 2-pieces (like a heart).

Everybody loves Raymond is a hilarious family comedy. Heart-warmth and extremely insulting at times. Raymond is the centre of attention of the family. Everyone look up to him and expect lots from him. All in all he is the hope of the family, he tries hard but keep failing to meet expectations which end up resulting in a lot of funny things for us to laugh at. The mother simply adores Raymond, and despise Raymond's wife for "stealing" her beloved son. Therefore creating lots of friction between poor Raymond as the man in between. But is all laughs for us. Not to mention his elder brother who is constantly jealous of Raymond's attention.

The osbournes reality show is about a rockstar family which is out of the norm of the ordinary all-American families. Jack and Kelly's life story is very "colourful" with rehabs, body modifications and strings of partners as their highlights. The contrast of Everybody loves Raymond and The osbournes is significant.

Not to mention Newlyweds Jessica & Nick, Carmen Electra and Dave Navarro, Snoop Dog and Family, Paris & Nicole -The simple life etc... all reality shows of celebrities is a new trend... ok, maybe a bit too much. Jessica's famous quote, "There's chicken in the sea?" to Paris's, "Walmart sells wall?"

??? is not meant to be mysterious, but it is.... as it is an unknown, a secret, those classified into the X files and truly "the truth is out there" can be use for the ???. Perhaps the existence of this unknown foreign objects (UFO) is a blessing, but most of the time the uncertainties are enough to scare humankind and drive them to do things out of their norm and resulting into so-called NUTS existing in the world.

As a result, Almond and Pistachio were created. The ultimate NUTS collection. So NUTS are meant to be together. Period. Well, maybe only when consumed or planted to become a tree. Namd and ??? are examples of medium of destruction.

Speaking of which, I would love to have an almond-shaped face :)

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Once upon a time, someone told me that I should say more sad stories when they are telling me their problems, so that they feel better. Instead of telling them happy stories. I was stunned after I got a few same feedbacks. It is true that I realised people are happier if you make yourself sound more pathetic and worse than them. Perhaps it is lying to oneself, but if it makes your listener happier instead of slumping into more misery.... why not?

That's my explanation for you. A monotonous life is boring.... chili padi is good for the digestion and to spice up your life. Nothing is perfect; perhaps the ride of "uncertainties" *wukakaka* is that which is fun.

Sekian, terima kasih

Open your eyes, listen tentatively and DO NOT follow your heart

Fighting alone in a war with only a single mission in your mind makes you fought and fought till you are hurt, severely damaged and sometimes death.....

What if, one day, someone told you, "Why are you in a war? Why do you follow this mission? Why don't you try other alternatives? Why do you wanna get hurt when you can be not?"

Will you suddenly get stunned and think for a while why are you in that position?

If you are a fighter, you would by all means try to find a reason(s) or just want to complete the mission.

If you are a rebel or a thinker, you would want to find out more of your on-going mission and ask for more opinions or negotiate with your surrounding people related with the mission.

If you are a quitter, you would runaway and leave the sorrow behind.

Do you feel alone in a war when everyone questions your decision to stay in a war that seems not worth it? Or do you feel the adrenaline rush to prove everyone that you can make it regardless of their opinions? Or do you feel that time can proves that everyone is wrong and you are right? Or etc etc etc......

Is this a test of patient? A test of persistency? A test of drive? A test of responsibility? A test of motivation? Or etc etc etc......

Is it really time to ponder the possibilities that people maybe right and sometimes we ourselves need to let go of our so-called "principles", so that end up ourselves having a better life? If the situation or people cannot change, is it time for us to move on? To find better alternatives?

It is not easy to be in a war alone, fighting for a mission without support. It would be more devastating if the mission of the war did not complete after you choose to fight till the end.

The ending - A severely hurt and damage oneself.

Perhaps it is time to open your eyes, listen tentatively and DO NOT follow your heart. But.... be REALISTIC.