"You are so big/fat/heavy!!!" (Or all equivalent)

Let's face it! Not everyone is born lucky to have fat-free genes and most of us are troubled by the fat we accumulate, especially as we start aging. For those who work in office, the hours of sitting on your f*t ass, it doesn't help at all.

Q1. Well, technically this problem can be solved, either by
A. Do something about it ----> Congrats if you succeed!
B. Accept the fact ----> Q2

Q2. Well, by accepting the fact, you still can opt to
A. Mix with people your size and feel comfy & acceptable ----> Good & bad consequences
B. Ditch those people who kills your self esteem ----> Q3

Q3. What if, these people are someone who you can't afford to ditch, say your family, relatives, spouse, partner, close friends or etc?
A. Tell them to f**king shut up and mind their own business ----> Considered settle if they listen
B. They just feel amused to make you the topic of their laughter/enjoyment and thinks you are actually enjoying the joke also ----> Q4

Q4. With all these constant teasing and as a laughing stock, you can either
A. Accept the fact or fate or better do something about it (lose weight OR kill the @#$&%$^% people who are on your nerves - solution depends on individual)
B. Commit suicide??? (Okay, I am joking about that).

There is this couple where the guy is constantly joking and picking on his gf's size. He is slowly chewing up his gf's self esteem and confidence. So she came by to ask her gf whether this is normal and how should she handle this situation. So her gf gave her some opinions and some possible reasons of her bf acting like that.

1. He lacks self confidence himself, therefore he tries to pull you down instead.
2. He seriously think your size is a joke and is worth laughing at (Men are from mars, remember that). Or perhaps you found a guy who is rather insensitive.
3. He wishes he could get a slender gf, and is either you lose the weight, else when a potential slender gf comes along, you are getting a potential "BYE! BYE!"

The gf after receiving these opinions, stared blank and asked her gf back, "What if there's another guy who comes along and appreciate me for who I am and doesn't joke about my size or not even bothered about it, will it be right for me to considered? Will I feel better?"

The troubled gf continue to ask, "Is it possible that anyone who is fat or big compared to the public's perspection will not mind being teased about their size? Especially on a constant reminder even though it is just a joke?"

Vienna, Austria

Schloss Schonbrunn (Summer Palace) and Gardens

The Habsburgs’ 1440-room summer palace where resides famous history of Prince Franz Joseph I and his wife Princess Sissi and also Napoleon who insist to sleep in the queen’s bed when he conquered Austria. The Versallies-like gardens behind the summer palace is amazing too.



The layout of the summer palace



Yeah, 100% german guy, satisfy all the curiousity about German guy? This is considered a good looking one.



Taken with mummy dearest :)





One of my favourite photos :) Check out the sky. Hey not bad at all for a point and shoot camera right? Give me some time to master how to use a DSLR (Oh wait, get a DSLR first, haha). Let's see which comes into my priority list first though.

City walking tour

Route: Neo-Gothic Rathaus (Town Hall) → 19th-century Burgtheater → Greek Revival-style Parlament → Arts & Natural History Museum (Maria-Theresien Square) → Walk along Graben to past the knobbly Petsaule (Plague Column) which commemorate the end of the plaque → St. Stephen’s Cathedral → Impressive Hofburg (Imperial Palace), the Habsburgs’ city-centre base → State Opera → Opera with golden hall → Baroque Karlskirche (St Charles’ Church) → City Park to see Statue of John Strauss

1. Town Hall: The town hall is 99 metres high, only 1 metre shorter than the church nearby which is 100 metres. This is due to respect (or pressure) from religion. The church is built in memory of Prince Franz Joseph I (Sissi’s husband). However, there’s a iron people holding a flag pole on top of the town hall which is 3.4 metres high.



Town Hall side view



Town Hall near view



The 100 metres high church beside the town hall

2. Burgtheatre



3. Parliament: Designed by Rome people. The statue in front is the God of Athens of knowledge. Beside it there is a statue of 3 people which is Father of Austria which believes to use democratic concept to achieve peace.





4. Arts and Natural History Museum: One of the finest and biggest in Europe (4th). Both museums were built as a mirror image of each other. The buildings are made of remembrance and respect of Queen Maria-Theresien who contributes significantly to the people of Austria. During the war period, Austria save its nation by diplomatic means – through marriage. Queen Maria-Theresian bear 16 kids and married her daughters to other European countries or married other people’s daughter into the country with exchange of land.



5. The knobbly Petsaule (Plague Column): which commemorate the end of the plaque.





This is the street that we walked.

6. St Stephen’s Cathedral (1359): 137m high, took 65 years to complete. All 9 states of Austria contribute to build this cathedral in the city central to represent peace among the states. From front is Rome-styled and overall building is Gothic-styled.






7. Hofburg/imperial palace: Took 600 years to complete. The building has a combination of gothic-, baroque-, rome-, Greece- and renaissance-styled.



8. State Opera (1869): The designer took 6 years to design this opera. However, after the building was completed, the king commented that the building is just ordinary. The tickets were sell out for its opening ceremony, but on the night of open ceremony when the chock strikes 12, a gunshot was heard as the designer commit suicide.



9. Opera with golden Hall: This opera is for instrumental/orchestra purposes.



10. City Park to see the statue of John Strauss



Pictures of the hotel we stayed in Austria. It is out of no where on top of the hill. We stayed there twice, once for the South Europe trip and another time during the East Europe trip. Once we experience normal cold weather and another time it was snowing!!!









Last but not least............



I want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. Syiok or not some pics appear bigger some appear smaller? Give you the suspense to stroll down to the end right? Wukakaka *wicked laugh*

KayElle Life

Time flies... I am back for 49 days... So what am I doing now?

I start a new job... But please stop asking me about "How is your new job?". Basically, I have only been working for 8 days. Not to mention that I am on leave last Wednesday to Friday to go Star Cruise. Well, I didn't expect to get a job so fast (I was expecting like a 4-6 months job hunting), so I booked myself for this holiday before I even got this job interview. I wanted to start mid of the month, but they insist I come in beginning of the month. Anyway, the deal is I can't take any leaves for the next 3 months =_=

I got a new ride... Technically, it is a 2nd hand car which is 1.3 years old. He still looks new and car condition is rather good. I guess I got a good deal with my bf helping out a lot from searching to finalizing the deal. First thing after I got the fella, drive him up to Penang and Sitiawan. Nowadays, he have more pleasureable treatment of home-work-home-work-sometimes Subang and he gets a shelter carpark at home and at work. Lucky dude huh... Well, basically his main role is to keep me company during my jam hours to work and back.

Anyway, I will be posting out my MUCH-MUCH-MUCH DELAYED Europe trip posts & pictures soon (hopefully =_=). I also should seriously go on a diet and start working out more frequently. Other than that, I guess my life is doing alright. As for friends who I haven't meet up, sorry ler.... Give me some time to adjust to my life.

Featured youtube

The titled "priceless" youtube.

I personally do not think there is anything priceless about this youtube, but trust me the author of this blog do not fail to laugh each time he watched this video. In fact, it become sort of a laughing source for the author. According to the author, the "expression of laughing-serious-innocent-smiling is damn cute" (something like that) =_="

And one thing.... How can someone take the girl seriously if she looks like that when she is serious.... SWEAT =_="

Wasssssssuuuuuuup

Geesh, my blog is infested by spider webs!!! I paused so long, thinking how to blog and what to blog. Basically since the last time I blog, many things happen. In short, for the last few weeks, I got myself a new ride, a new job (2nd day nia), went to a KL-Sitiawan-Penang-KL trip and most importantly I spend much precious time with my awesome boyfriend (the best guy a gal can ask for) :)

Anyway, Calv have been teaching me to use DSLR camera which is rather addictive. However, I got a few things that I am saving money to buy and all will cost a BIG BURN HOLE in my pocket. OUCH!!! So, meanwhile, misuse Calv's DSLR first. Wukakaka....

I haven't been to Penang and Sitiwan for 10 years. When I moved over to KL 12 years ago, my famiy and I travel intensively throughout West Malaysia for 2 years and then we opt for travelling overseas after that. So, it was kind of nice to travel around West Malaysia via road trip again.

Well, let's go on with the Sitiawan trip first. Drum rolls.........

I DIDNT TAKE ANY PICTURES!!!

So, just proceed to the Penang Trip


Queensbay Mall


When you don't have a DSLR, use your digicam to amuse yourself!


The famous gurney drive - I been there 10 years ago!


There's a hotel known as G hotel there and there have a bar called "g spot". Fuyoh~


We went to Penang Hill. That place seriously need to implement a faster train!!!


We had a drink at David Brown's restaurant at the top of Penang Hill. The price of the drinks there are a bit pricey but the view and the design of the place is superb!


The small lake with water lilies outside David Brown's restaurant.


Calv and I doing the first big head photo shoot. BORING!!!

So, being a nice bf, he reluctantly agree to do a cute pose for the sake of his gf's request... and we come out with this!


KE BU KE AI?!?!?!?!?! (Translated: Cute or not?)

Eh eh, not enough ummmpphhh right? We strike another post.


Kesian the man.... there goes his proclaimed macho-ness. Wukakakaka....


We had dinner beside the beach with Calv's friends, sitting in a little atap house. My legs cramped a couple of times as I am not used to sit crossed-legs for long hours.

Overall, I had a really enjoyable road trip with Calv. This trip arrives at a great time just before I start working again. We had a lot of great food (and I mean A LOT), sightseeing, meeting up with people and strengthen our relationship. I even learn how to use a DSLR... here's THE proof....



Wukakaka... and you think with a DSLR --- I will forget to camwhore :P

Sekian, terima kasih.

For more and better pictures (DSLR pictures of coz better) and details of the journey, you are welcome to visit the eng tau bf's blog.