There's this saying that when one start dating they will "heavy sex light friend"... Wukakaka... that's a direct translation from the chinese saying which means they will forget the friends and focus on their bf/gf.
I guess most people would like their partner to be devoted to them instead of their family, relatives and friends.
Are you intimidated by your partner's friends and people who are taking up more time or attention of his/her compared to you as his/her gf/bf someone who potentially maybe the one who spend the rest of his/her lifetime with?
It is said that guys are especially into the "brotherhood" compared to girls who tend to ditch their friends after they are in a relationship.
How do you feel to know that you will always be one step behind his friends and he will lie for the sake of his friends? Or would you prefer to choose a guy who other guys will probably point and laugh at him becoz he is so-called "scare of his gf/wife" but prefers to tell you everything?
Men are species who wants face more than women does when it comes to a "manhood" reputation.
I guess perhaps it is due to our society and the stereotype thing. But as the world is becoming more equal, woman maybe better in man both in work and financial status, does that mean women have the right to be the way man acts like?
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
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WUKAKAKAKAKAKAKA...... okay... this one I'll leave the guys to answer... CALVIN TEH!!! Wat say you??
really does depends... the actual fact is that I did have my time focused on spending my time with my gf. but of course from time to time we each have our own time we need for our other friends as well. is that really too much to ask for?
and for lying part, how do u define as lying? telling u the story but not the full detail considered lying?
"Calv:and for lying part, how do u define as lying? telling u the story but not the full detail considered lying?"----arg, this is very 'gek sei'!!!
An example: A guy pak tor with a gal. one day she find out he is married. She is very mad and his answer is: "u dint ask me married or not mah, u juz ask me got gf or not...so i really no gf that time..."---yes, he dint has gf but he has a wife.
I guess everyone's definition will be different. That's when you get to know your partner better. Perhaps you will know your position better in a relationship, it really depends on your interpretation and how your partner interprets it for you. Given said that, if both parties agree that this is the understanding of communication, then either is to compromise or to be equal in it.
Shasha: Wukakakaka..... well, that's why the power of "playing with words" is essential in handling relationships I guess :P
All I can say is family and friends are important too besides 'sex'.
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