Treasure when you still have it

Many of times people regret after losing something.....
Many of times people only change after losing something.....
Many of times people only realise after losing something.....

People come and go in your life, to be able to know someone in your life, is a blessing and is fate. Many times we take it for granted and let go of opportunities to have a great friendship, a learning experience, a job or even a relationship.

Many of times we are in dilemma to make decisions to choose when we are in a crossroad, be it a new career, a break and more so a relationship. There is a saying "Once bitten, twice shy".

I always tell others to have hope, to believe and to love, this is so much easier said than done though. I guess as human, we are mostly affected by 3 factors - Money, Love & Career. This 3 things seems to revolve around us, affecting our happiness, upsetness and angriness.

Do you ever feel touched that someone is there to say, "As long as you are happy." and willing to do things for you without any expected returns?

Do you ever regret only after losing someone because you yourself could not make a decision at the right time or do not treasure him/her when he/she is there for you?

Do you always hate your job and realised that the new job is even worse from the previous job and your previous job wasn't that bad after all?

Do you regret that you haven't spend more time with your parents/your friends/your loved one and when they left unexpectedly and all you can feel is regret & helpless?

Do you feel like a moron when you know you are doing something wrong but you keep continuing it because you are addicted and you realise you are living your life repeating your mistakes over & over again?

Do you realise you are constantly asking questions, but forgetting to answer them or find a solution for the problems instead?

There's so many things running in our mind all the time, but is it necessary? Life goes on whether you are happy, angry or upset. Why choose to live it negatively? You are in control of your own life destiny. You are not perfect, neither am I, that makes us human. That's why we are constantly learning by ourselves and from everyone else around us.

Treasure when you still have it, before you lose that someone you could have forever, someone that will bring you happiness because of your own indecisive character. Live life to the fullest!

And I end this post, by posting a writings hanging on a wall in my house which was brought by me in Vietnam --- "Life is love, if you miss love, you miss life".